Monday, December 31, 2012

2012 Christmas Newsletter

2012 . . . pretty much the busiest & best year ever for the Gru-Cru. We visited Stonehenge (at least the Kerrville, TX version), ran in the Corpus Christi Beach-to-Bay relay marathon, embarked on an impromptu Utah road trip, and spent a week relaxing at Lake Conroe. To get our adrenalin fix, we survived a late night javelina attack during the first night of our West Texas camping trip and rewarded ourselves by spending the second night in a Comfort Inn to escape a massive hail storm. Additionally, we visited Sea World, the Blue Bell Ice Cream factory (twice in one week), and the Texas Prison Museum (good times). To instill cultural awareness and time-tested values, we also fed the kids their first and last Hostess products. 

 Tara knocked out 37 of her “40 by 40” goals. A few of her activities included no ponytails for a month and going sugar-free for 30 days. She grew vegetables, decorated the house, got a massage, built furniture, and hosted a four-course dinner party. She visited LA and Chicago and even ate cheese curds in Wisconsin. That being said, her biggest accomplishment was actually surviving long enough to turn 40! Three separate car accidents never skew the odds in one’s favor . . . she was T-boned by an elderly Chinese man that spoke no English, she was rear-ended by a teenager in Cortez, CO traveling back from Utah, and she took out a 550 pound feral hog on the way home from football practice. Winning a new car as a contestant on “Let’s Make a Deal” would have been a great way to end the story, but instead she and Scott lost BIG and only received a hundred bucks and a handshake from Wayne Brady. 

Scott remains on staff at the Wilford Hall periodontics program, although he doesn’t make as many residents cry these days. Maybe this compassion is what spurred his “Educator of the Year” award? He racked up sky miles and hotel points spending 82 days & 63 nights away from home giving and attending endless lectures and conferences in Chicago, Dallas, Florida, Los Angeles, North Carolina (x2), New York & San Francisco just to name a few. However, he put those travel rewards to work, finally making the required birding pilgrimage to Alaska, because hey . . . who doesn’t want to spend their summer vacation in 32° temperatures with 25mph winds off the Arctic Ocean on the tundra in Barrow, Alaska? Additionally, Scott has finally visited all 50 states . . . Indiana was checked off the list this past April.

 Riley (14) started high school and has managed to schedule 28 or 29 hours of activities into every single day with a full honors course load, seminary, piano (lessons & teaching), and swimming. We should also mention that she has proudly scored a goal and been ejected from a match earning her official VARSTIY water polo status! (After months of 5:15 am practices, her parents are counting down the days until she can drive.) To celebrate earning her Young Women Recognition Award, she took a trip to NYC with her dad. They bonded by cruising Times Square, the Fashion District, the MOMA, and seeing The Lion King, Blue Man Group, Elf the Musical, and The Phantom of the Opera. Check out her new smile . . . braces came off in August! 

 Spencer (12) briefly experienced flight on his bike during the “sweetest jump of his life”, shortly followed by reacquainting himself with the asphalt . . . and breaking his arm in two places. It was a rough recovery period for all of us, as he just not a “sit still” type of kid. He enjoys middle school exactly as much as he did elementary, which unfortunately, isn’t much. He misses recess and being able to wear shorts but loves that they let him chew gum and that the cafeteria serves bacon burgers. He lives for football, basketball, and skateboarding and tolerates summer swim team. Turning12 means that he can finally ride in the front seat and serve as a Deacon at church. He really wants a dog or a snake, but has settled for a really cool leopard gecko named Elmo and an Oscar fish named Oscar. 

 Eddie (8) is thrilled to finally be eight - old enough to be baptized and join cub scouts! Unfortunately, he has been stricken (and not so subtly) to suffer between chronic states of boredom and hunger and he feels tortured anytime he is forced to wear long sleeves or pants. That being said, Eddie has discovered the advantages of strategically placing himself to become an awesome rebounder in basketball and he even mastered the butterfly during swim team this year. His favorite extra-curricular activities are still riding his bike, playing outside with his friends and charming everyone into getting his way. He loves Legos, drawing, and bustin’ a move and he is by far the funniest, smartest, and cutest kid we know.

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Christmas Day 2012


We started off early this year-5:00 am.  Mostly because Mom couldn't sleep (She was so excited b/c the kids were getting a cruise).  The kids lined up at the top of the stairs wearing matching "Raised by Elves" PJ's.







Monday, December 24, 2012

Christmas Eve

Every year we make graham cracker houses.





Christopher and Spencer were very proud of their candy can themed house.




I loved his Rudolph.  So Clever!



Then someone decided that it was time for a polar bear swim.  It may look bright and sunny, but the water temperature was 52 degrees. BRRR!  












Sunday, December 16, 2012

Floor Mats

Scott's car floor mats are worn out.  Since my parents live near a dealership and they needed Christmas ideas, I asked them to get some.  What I told my mom, "He wants all-weather floor mats for his 2009 Subaru Impreza Outback Sport.  What she told my dad-"Scott wants leather floor mats for his Saab".  Close, but a few tax brackets away.

Sunday, December 9, 2012

Spencer's First Talk

Spencer did a great job on his first talk and I just wanted to save this for posterity:
 I was going to start off with a joke that was so funny your hair will fall out.(look back)but I think Brother Vaughn has already heard it. My name is Spencer Gruwell. For those of you that don’t know me, I am 12-years old. I love to draw, skate-board and cook. I love sports, especially basketball and football. Last year, I was nominated to play in the all-star game for football. I was ranked #1 in the league and I was going to start at quarterback. As you can imagine, I was super excited. Then my mom read the e-mail and told me the game was on a Sunday, but the decision was up to me. Play in the game or keep the Sabbath day holy. Even though I was really sad to miss out on the opportunity, I decided not to play. Something was telling me not to go. It was the Holy Ghost. I felt really good on inside. I wouldn’t have that bad feeling in my stomach. A year later, I don’t regret not playing at all. Scripture 2 Nephi 32:5 If you follow the Holy Ghost, He will guide you to the right things you need to do. In this case, it was a football game, but He helps me in my daily life as well. Elder Walter F. González-shared the following analogy in last October’s General Conference. Today, surrounded by so much information, we might think that navigating millions of web pages will give us all that we need to know. We can find good and bad information on the web, but information alone is not enough. God has given us another source for greater knowledge, even knowledge sent from heaven. Our Heavenly Father can give us such knowledge when we navigate the celestial web in our hearts and minds. The Prophet Joseph Smith said that he had “the oldest book in [his] heart, even the gift of the Holy Ghost.” We access this celestial source when we do things such as reading the scriptures, hearkening to the living prophet, and praying. It is also important to take time to be still and feel and follow the celestial promptings. When we do this, we will “feel and see” things that cannot be learned with modern technology. Once we have some experience in navigating this celestial web, we will discern the truth, even when reading secular history or other topics. The honest seekers of truth will know the truth of all things by the power of the Holy Ghost. I used the internet every day, there are probably a lot of false things that you would never have even thought of. You cannot believe everything you read on the internet. I need to use the power of the Holy Ghost to seek answers as well. We can access this gift by prayer, choosing the right, scripture study, going to church etc. Joseph Fielding Smith Jr. said: “When a man has the manifestation from the Holy Ghost, it leaves an indelible impression on his soul, one that is not easily erased. It is the Spirit speaking to spirit, and it comes with convincing force. A manifestation of an angel, or even of the Son of God himself, would impress the eye and mind, and eventually become dimmed, but the impressions of the Holy Ghost sink deeper into the soul and are more difficult to erase”. If you see an angel, you’ll be very strong temporarily, but later you’ll forget. However, the impressions of the Holy Ghost will stay longer. In six years, I will go on a mission where I will teach the gospel. If I know everything about the church, but I don’t have the Spirit with me, I will not be an effective missionary. In the Book of Mormon, King Benjamin preaches to his people with the Spirit. We can read their reaction in Mosiah 5:2 The people felt the Spirit when he spoke and they stopped being evil.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Decking the Halls







Everyone wanted to sleep under the tree.


Sea World








We got a little wet








Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Tara's 40

Scott arranged for my Mom to come and stay with the kiddos while we hung downtown for two days.  We relaxed in the hotel, explored the River Walk, practiced our photography skills and ate at yummy restaurants. It the perfect way to turn the big 4-0.






The kids decorated the house for my big day!

40 by 40 Done!

Even though I didn't complete all my goals, I consider this project 100% successful.  
I graduated from college over 16 years ago, haven't worked full time for over a decade, and I'd be pretty hard pressed to fill up a decent resume.  I am at the point in my life, where I don't really naturally achieve things.  For the most part, I am happy to sit on the sidelines cheering my husband and children on, as they accomplish many wonderful things. 
This was a great opportunity to get myself off the metaphorical bench and score some goals of my own. I published the list on my blog to hold myself accountable, but it had a wonderful side effect. Family, friends and even acquaintances were constantly asking what I was working on, or how many goals I had left. One of the funnest parts of this project was discovering that I had my own personal cheering squad. Who doesn't need that?


In case you missed it, here's what I did:



Just say no to frumpy and 40
1. No ponytails for 30 days (except for yard work/exercise) (Nov 29, 2012)
2. Wear lipstick every time I leave the house for 30 days (March 2012)
3.  Buy eyeshadow (done) and actually wear it (Jan 2012)
4. Get my hair professionally colored (May 1, 2012)

Fitness
5. Be able to do 10 consecutive push-ups (I can do 0) This is clearly never going to happen.
6. Run an organized 10K race-(May 18, 2012)  I have had a hard time finding a race and a free weekend.  I did run with my husband in the Beach To Bay Relay Marathon.  It was only 4.2 miles, but it motivated me to start running again.  I have been running a few times a week since. I hope to run a marathon in the fall.
7. Complete 12 weeks of Body for Life (started Jan 2, 2012)-failed
8. No sugar for 30 days (September 12, 2012)
9. Eat vegetarian for 30 days (June 30, 2012) (kids hated this one)

Projects
10. Create a functional and fabulous craft room more or less complete
11. Create a functional and fabulous laundry room (Jan 26, 2012).
12.  Build something (by myself) out of wood-sort of did it. My dad help me build several things out of wood over the past year.  I needed some wood cut for some various Christmas projects and I did the cutting all by myself.
Bee Mine

13. Create a mommy-command station (Sept 17, 2012)
14. Decorate Master bathroom (I wanted to put glass tiles on the outside of my tub, but I couldn't figure out a way that I was sure was going to work.  I haven't come up with another idea that I am excited about)
15. Decorate half bath (16 May 2012)
16. Paint stairs (Nov 17, 2012)  Not really blog worthy, but I covered up all the finger prints)
17. Eat something I grew myself  (3 May 2012)

18. Install kitchen hardware (31 Jan, 2012)
19. Learn how to hang shelves (Jan 3, 2012)


Because I never have before:
20. Take a hot-air balloon ride (I forgot that I am afraid of heights and so I don't think I'm doing this one)
21. Bake a souffle (Nov 30, 2012) 
22.  Make a 4 course gourmet meal (Dec 2, 2012)
23. Write a fan letter (never really did this-I did e-mail Taco Cabana telling them how much I appreciate their 20% military discount  and how much I love their street tacos, but they are so much better w/ the corn salsa and they should bring that back)
24. Read the Lord of the Rings trilogy(I read the first one and it decided that I am going to skip the next 2-just not my type of book)
25.  Read Tale of Two Cities-I got halfway through
26.  Attend a Bowl Game (Go Cougars!) (Dec 30)
27. Play a round of Frisbee golf (Jan 16)

28. Get a massage (Feb 13, 21012) Thanks Barb for taking care of this one.

Places to Go:
29.  Visit Big Bend National Park (This wasn't really a strong desire of mine, but we planned to go camping over Spring Break. I didn't realize that you had to make reservations years in advance).
30. Visit the Sears (Willis) Tower in Chicago (26 April 2012)

31. See the Hollywood walk of fame (Oct 4, 2012)

32. See Le Miserables (Jan 5, 2012) No blog post-We forgot the camera
33. Eat cheese in Wisconsin (24 April 2012)
34. Eat Pizza in Chicago (26 April 2012)

35.  Take a weekend in the Texas Hill Country with my hubby (June 29-30) Stayed at a quaint little Bed and Breakfast with paper thin walls.  When you arrived they had complimentary chocolate, water, snacks, and ear plugs.  We had a good time, although maybe not quite the romantic get-a-way we envisioned.
36.  Be a member of a live studio audience (March 17, 2012)
 
We were also on Leno and even contestants on Let's Make a Deal.


Stuff that's good for me:
37. Take a class on Isaiah (January 19-May)
38. Draw up a will-no excuse why this isn't done.  
39. Meet with financial planner-My husband's military commitment is up in 2 years, and we have to figure out what we are going to do next,before we make any sort of financial plan.  I have been listening to Dave Ramsey:)
40.  Write a thank-you note for every gift and act of service (no one do anything nice for me until 2013) I have a stack of about 5 sitting on my desk to be mailed.  I should have said-"Mail a thank-you note...)

EXTRA Goals:
1. Take a photography class-(Started Nov 28th-I am learning a lot. I even learned how to take ghost pictures.
2.  Buy a crock-pot and find some meals my family will actually eat 
3.  Adopt a family for Christmas





 I am working on 13 Goals to complete in 2013,  Stay Tuned!